Attachment 101 for Parents: Lisa Chan’s Guide to Raising Confident, Secure Children

Lisa Chan's Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUWZG8UBbBAaGMe3eyt_iLQ Lisa Chan's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisaparentcoach/ In this episode, Adam Lane Smith and Lisa dive into the importance of early parent-child connections and how unresolved childhood relationships can impact adulthood. They break down the key differences between tantrums and meltdowns, helping parents understand how to respond effectively. The conversation also explores healthy conflict resolution, emphasizing why teaching cooperation instead of confrontation is essential for a child’s long-term emotional well-being. ✨ Key Points Covered: ✨ 👉 How unresolved childhood relationships affect adults later in life 👉 The difference between tantrums and meltdowns and how to handle them 👉 How overstimulation leads to meltdowns and what parents can do to prevent them 👉 Teaching kids cooperation vs. confrontation in conflict resolution 👉 The role of delayed gratification and emotional discipline in child development 👉 How early conflict habits shape attachment styles and future relationships 👉 Why early emotional training is crucial for long-term well-being By recognizing these patterns and applying the right strategies, parents can strengthen their bond with their children and set them up for lifelong emotional resilience. The best time to instill these lessons is now—because what’s “adorable” in childhood can become a serious challenge in adulthood. Exclusive Discount for Lisa’s Program Get $100 Off – Use coupon ADAM100 at checkout for an exclusive discount. https://workwith.thelisachan.com/offers/385BJw8C/checkout?coupon_code=ADAM100 Explore Lisa’s Resources & Get Started – Visit the site through this special affiliate link: https://www.thelisachan.com/?utm_source=adam&utm_medium=affiliate 🛎️ Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE for more videos on attachment, relationships, and emotional intimacy. Subscribe to The Attachment Newsletter: https://adamlanesmith.com/newsletter-signup/ Work with Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist: https://adamlanesmith.com/ https://adamlanesmith.com/courses/ https://adamlanesmith.com/single-session/ The 4 Attachment Styles Guide - Free! 📥 https://adamlanesmith.com/the4attachments/ Slaying Your Fear - A Book For People Who Grapple With Insecurity https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07S33YGJZ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro X: https://twitter.com/adamlanesmith Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AdamLaneSmith/ Chapters: 00:00:00 Importance of Parental Attachment and Daycare Concerns 00:04:04 The Role of Smell in Infant Bonding 00:07:14 Overcoming Perfectionism and Anxiety in Children 00:10:32 The Impact of Parental Anxiety on Children 00:14:05 Understanding Avoidant and Anxious Attachment Styles 00:17:23 Understanding Emotional Regulation in Children 00:20:55 Understanding Autism and ADHD: A Parent's Perspective 00:24:36 The Role of Parents in Children's Therapy 00:28:16 Understanding Tantrums vs. Meltdowns 00:31:28 The Importance of Early Parenting Interventions 00:34:54 The Impact of Attachment on Parenting and Future Generations 00:38:32 The Importance of Parenting Skills for Future Generations 00:41:59 Introduction and Acknowledgments