83% Of Women Are Using Intimacy And Oxytocin Bonding Wrong

In this powerful video, Adam reveals why 83% of women are unintentionally using intimacy the wrong way—and how it affects their ability to form lasting emotional bonds with men. Learn the science behind male and female bonding hormones, why oxytocin isn't enough, and how to activate vasopressin—the key to building deep, lasting connections with a man. If you're tired of being ghosted or feeling emotionally unfulfilled after sex, this could change everything. Topic Covered: 👉 Why oxytocin bonds women—but not men 👉 The overlooked hormone: vasopressin and its role in male bonding 👉 The real reason men ghost after sex 👉 The "hamburger effect" and how dopamine undermines emotional connection 👉 How to trigger a man's protective and affectionate instincts 👉 The power of shared goals and teamwork in the bedroom 👉 Why communication during intimacy builds stronger attachment 👉 How to use the “Help Me Get There” technique to foster deeper connection 👉 Why passive intimacy fails to generate bonding for men 👉 The “Drunk Octopus” method to stimulate oxytocin in men If you’re ready to stop repeating the same painful relationship patterns and finally build real emotional intimacy with the right man, visit AdamLaneSmith.com to explore more resources. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this with someone who needs to hear it. If you enjoyed watching this episode, you might love '5 Secrets to Oxytocin Bonding in Anxious Avoidant Relationships'. Watch here: https://youtu.be/ReInI5L2SyA Join me at the Attachment Immersion Retreat—where I’ll guide you through the tools to build secure bonds, regulate your emotions, and create the thriving relationships you’ve always wanted. Want in? Get all the details at https://adamlanesmith.com/retreat/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=avoidant&utm_content=descriptionlink 🛎️ Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE for more videos on attachment, relationships, and emotional intimacy. Subscribe to The Attachment Newsletter: https://adamlanesmith.com/newsletter-signup/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social Work with Adam Lane Smith, The Attachment Specialist: https://adamlanesmith.com/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social https://adamlanesmith.com/work-with-me/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social https://adamlanesmith.com/private-coaching/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social The 4 Attachment Styles Guide - Free! 📥 https://adamlanesmith.com/the4attachments/?utm_source=youtube.com&utm_medium=social Slaying Your Fear - A Book For People Who Grapple With Insecurity https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07S33YGJZ Connect with Adam on your second preferred platform: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro X: https://twitter.com/adamlanesmith Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AdamLaneSmith/ Chapters: 00:00:00 Understanding Male and Female Brain Chemistry for Better Bonding 00:03:39 Understanding the "Hamburger Effect" in Male Bonding 00:07:07 The Science of Vasopressin and Bonding in Relationships 00:10:31 Enhancing Intimacy: The Importance of Open Communication in the Bedroom 00:13:47 Effective Communication for Enhanced Intimacy 00:16:53 Enhancing Intimacy Through Communication Techniques 00:20:03 Enhancing Intimacy: Setting Shared Goals 00:23:18 Enhancing Intimacy through Touch and Oxytocin Release 00:27:04 Enhancing Female Orgasm: The Role of Oxytocin and Foreplay 00:30:15 Understanding Oxytocin's Role in Intimacy and Bonding 00:33:24 Strengthening Relationships Through Oxytocin After Intimacy 00:36:36 Building Trust and Security in Relationships 00:39:59 Enhancing Relationships: Partner Engagement Challenge