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Confused why the avoidant in your life lets you walk away so easily? Discover the hidden forces at play and what you can do to change the dynamic—or finally break free for good.
In today’s video, Thais Gibson unpacks the core psychological reasons why dismissive avoidants rarely chase after you when you pull away or leave. Discover how childhood emotional neglect, subconscious fears, and the myth of effortless relationships drive avoidant detachment. Watch as Thais reveals the four pillars of this pattern, plus practical steps you can take to communicate your needs, set healthy deadlines, and finally move forward with clarity and confidence.
00:00:00 – Why avoidants don’t chase when you leave
00:00:56 – Four key drivers behind the avoidant’s detachment
00:01:14 – Feelings minus fears: the net equation for connection
00:02:24 – How childhood emotional neglect shapes avoidant responses
00:03:39 – The moment attachment forms: why wounds resurface
00:04:42 – Why avoidants believe relationships should be easy
00:05:49 – Learned helplessness and the myth of the perfect partner
00:06:54 – Flaw-finding as self-protection
00:07:46 – Why avoidants struggle to co-regulate
00:10:16 – What to do when your avoidant partner pulls away
00:11:59 – Three essentials for communicating needs and creating change
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