The 4 S's of Attachment-Based Parenting - Dan Siegel - 276

One of my mentors, Dan Siegel, is back on the podcast for his 3rd interview. This time, we dive deep into attachment-based parenting. Dan’s work, which my wife and I study intently, is how I parent my own children. The cool thing about Dan is what a nerd he is around research-based approaches and information. We cover the 4 S’s from his “Power of Showing Up” book. It’s so good. Check it out and please apply this to your own parenting (if you are one). Shownotes: 3:25: Introduction Dan Siegel 4:40: How kids’ behavior is different in this day and age. 7:30: New parenting challenges 14:15: About secure attachment 22:00: The 4 S’s 24:25:Safety 28:05: Seen 30:00 Soothe 31:10 Security 33:10 Attachment and parenting roles 38:10: Research about secure attachment in kids and adolescents 42:50: It’s possible to provide secure attachment even in parents who didn’t have it 45:40: Action step Useful Links: https://relationshipschool.com/connected https://www.drdansiegel.com/ The Power Of Showing Up: https://www.amazon.com/Power-Showing-Up-Parental-Presence/dp/1524797715 Attachment from infancy to adulthood: https://books.google.com.co/books?id=eZMxoRs5aUkC&printsec=frontcover&dq=minnesota+longitudinal+study&hl=en&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEwjzgNSh7-_nAhUETt8KHWlLBuAQ6AEIKDAA#v=onepage&q&f=false