We’ve come to the end of another year, and it’s a good time to take stock and consider how we’d like to grow and change during our next trip around the sun. In this episode, Dr. Rick and I focus on what supports us and what holds us back from reinventing ourselves and becoming all we wish to be. We talk about how we’d like to change over the next year, different approaches to new year’s resolutions, do a little digging around in my psyche, and highlight a few practical things we can do to support our change.
Key Topics:
0:00 Introduction
1:55 Balancing different frameworks for goals and intentions
6:15 Forrest looking for more freedom and less constraint
8:35 Integrating the mundane and profound
11:50 What supports us in changing? What constrains us?
13:50 Mentors and other sources of encouragement
22:30 Reverting to old patterns when returning to old environments
28:15 Self-acceptance making change possible
30:05 Trim tabs and other forms of psychological leverage
36:10 Diligence, effort, and consistency
38:40 Addressing deficits and reassuring yourself
41:20 Relaxing around inevitability
42:35 Embracing the joy of possibility and change
47:40 Recap
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