When people think about anxiety and worry, they often focus on thoughts and emotions. But one of the most powerful—and overlooked—drivers of chronic worry is intolerance of uncertainty, and it often shows up in our behavior long before we notice it mentally. Avoiding tasks, over-researching, procrastinating, asking for reassurance, or spreading yourself too thin might seem like separate issues, but they can all stem from the same psychological root: a deep discomfort with not knowing how things will turn out. These behaviors serve a purpose—they give a temporary sense of control or certainty in situations where outcomes feel unpredictable. But over time, they maintain and even intensify anxiety and excessive worry. The effort to eliminate uncertainty becomes exhausting, inefficient, and ultimately ineffective. By identifying how intolerance of uncertainty manifests in day-to-day actions, you can start shifting your approach. Patterns like not delegating, overprotecting others, avoiding commitment, or constantly second-guessing decisions can become clues. They point to an opportunity—not to control uncertainty, but to build tolerance for it. Understanding these behavioral signs is a critical step in breaking the worry cycle. Once you spot the patterns, you can begin changing your response to uncertainty in small but powerful ways—setting the stage for more lasting change in how you relate to anxiety and decision-making.
For more information about excessive worry and Generalized Anxiety Disorder, see my long form video: https://tinyurl.com/y4yqthap
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Videos in the worry management series:
Overcoming Worry 1: Defining Worry: 3 features of worry and 2 types of worry - https://tinyurl.com/y2ox4z9n
Overcoming Worry 2: Understanding a model of worry and worry awareness training - https://tinyurl.com/y5awco8l
Overcoming Worry & Anxiety 3: The Role of Intolerance of Uncertainty in Worry - https://tinyurl.com/y6ohak2y
Overcoming Worry & Anxiety 4: Manifestations of Intolerance of Uncertainty -
https://youtu.be/kxZhnoO23iM
Overcoming Worry & Anxiety 5: Two Ways to Build Tolerance for Uncertainty -
https://youtu.be/UL8ayC0Fe9Y
Overcoming Worry & Anxiety 6: Five Myths about Worry -
https://youtu.be/Ss-lybWi5wE
Overcoming Worry & Anxiety 7: Challenging Worry Myths -
https://youtu.be/x0c4Am9gj4I
Overcoming Worry & Anxiety 8: What do you do when you hate dealing with problems? -
https://youtu.be/CwnlOXtnn58
Overcoming Worry & Anxiety 9: Problem-Solving Skills to Defeat Worry -
https://youtu.be/hyWDgTiVVfY
Overcoming Worry & Anxiety 10: Why we worry about things that haven’t happened -
https://youtu.be/n2u3jpGl81Q
Overcoming Worry & Anxiety 11: The most surprising tool to help you worry less -
https://youtu.be/mkYxVWlwuk0
Overcoming Worry & Anxiety 12 - A Worry Management Recipe -
https://youtu.be/nr68o7eBmBQ
Overcoming Worry & Anxiety 13 - Dealing with Complex Worries -
https://youtu.be/rXeISzGK71Q
Overcoming Worry & Anxiety 14 - Maintaining Progress and Preventing Worry Relapse -
https://youtu.be/KRk9aRjr0XI
For more information about Dr. Rami Nader, visit: https://tinyurl.com/y3eu5dfw
For more information about Dr. Michel Dugas' work on Generalized Anxiety Disorder and an excellent workbook, visit: https://tinyurl.com/yxf78mnt
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