What if your gut instincts aren't guiding you—but misleading you through unresolved trauma? In this thought-provoking episode on trauma healing, emotional regulation, and behavioral influence, we’re joined by Dr. Abbie Maroño, an internationally recognized behavioral scientist whose work has impacted elite agencies like the FBI, Secret Service, and Homeland Security. Together, we explore how trauma shapes decision-making, the myth of love at first sight, the neuroscience behind emotional shutdown, and why true resilience isn't about being bulletproof—it's about being bouncy. Dr. Maroño brings a rare blend of scientific rigor and lived insight, with a background in forensic psychology, counterterrorism, and consulting for global intelligence agencies. Tune in to uncover how your brain, body, and beliefs are more entangled than you think—and what it truly takes to break generational cycles. If this episode resonates, drop a comment below, subscribe for future deep dives, and explore more transformative conversations at ZuluOne.
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— Chapters —
00:00 - Opening the Conversation
01:00 - Dr. Abbie’s Origins in Forensic Psychology and the FBI
05:10 - Why Human Behavior Isn’t Linear: A Systems-Based Perspective
10:02 - The Problem with One-Size-Fits-All Behavior Science
15:45 - Trauma Responses: Freeze, Emotional Shutdown, and the Brain
21:10 - Victim vs. Perpetrator: How Trauma Shapes Both
26:00 - Rewiring Patterns: Breaking Generational Cycles
30:57 - Inner Child Work and the Root of Human Vulnerability
36:30 - Trauma as a Matter of National Security
41:22 - Understanding Triggers, Self-Awareness, and Influence
47:15 - The Widower Effect and Systemic Resonance
52:30 - Trauma Patterns in Families and Relearning What’s “Normal”
57:45 - The Rising Cultural Awareness of Trauma
01:01:00 - Teaching Federal Agents the Nervous System’s Role in Behavior
01:06:20 - Intuition or Trauma Response? How to Tell the Difference
01:11:55 - Love at First Sight: Attraction, Familiarity, and Trauma Bonding
01:17:05 - Why the Most Resilient Leaders Have Lived Through Hell
01:22:00 - AI, Neuralink, and the Future of Human Healing
01:26:47 - Connection, Consciousness, and Nature’s Impact on Well-Being
01:31:00 - Final Thoughts and Where to Find Dr. Abbie