Why You Keep Ignoring Red Flags In Relationships (Fix THIS!) | E102

Are you wearing rose-colored glasses that are distorting your ability to see people clearly? In this episode of The New Age Sage, I uncover the hidden traumas and attachment wounds that keep you blind to red flags, addicted to chaos, and stuck in cycles of love that drain your soul. Whether it's anxious attachment, fear of being alone, or the belief you can fix someone, these unconscious patterns shape who you attract and what you tolerate. If you’re tired of mistaking red flags for connection and calling it love, this episode will show you how to take the glasses off, see with truth, and finally choose relationships rooted in wholeness. ——————— 00:00 - Intro 00:40 - The terror of being alone 06:07 - Brokenness and the belief in a missing piece 12:43 - My anxious attachment 20:02 - Narcissists and love bombing 26:08 - Visualizing the cost of chasing the wrong person 30:21 - Romantic trauma is the final boss 33:36 - Being a fixer is a red flag in disguise 37:00 - Avoidant terror of intimacy 43:04 - Being addicted to changing someone 50:01 - Women who believe they can't provide 54:35 - Final thoughts ——————— Please like, comment, and subscribe if this episode resonates with you. I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below! Lucas Salame: www.instagram.com/lucas__salame/ | https://www.new-age-sage.com