Why Avoidants Run Hot and Cold in Love | Mel Robbins Motivation

#melrobbinsmotivation, #emotionaldetachment, #selfworthjourney, #healingfromlove, #relationshiphealing, In this powerful 19-minute motivational speech inspired by Mel Robbins, we dive deep into the emotional rollercoaster of loving someone with an avoidant attachment style. If you've ever experienced that painful cycle of closeness followed by sudden distance — "touch, retreat, repeat" — this video is your wake-up call. You’ll learn how avoidants operate in relationships, why they crave intimacy but fear it, and how you can break free from the anxiety-fueled cycle. This speech is not just for understanding them — it’s for reclaiming your emotional power, setting boundaries, and healing from the confusion of mixed signals. ⏱️ Timestamps with Emojis: 00:00 – Intro: The Avoidant Attachment Cycle 🔄 01:22 – What “Touch, Retreat, Repeat” Really Means 🌀 03:40 – Why Avoidants Push and Pull Emotionally 🧠💔 06:15 – When Closeness Triggers Their Fear 🚫❤️ 08:45 – The Role of Your Response in the Cycle 🔁 11:30 – How to Step Out of the Pattern 🚶‍♀️ 14:00 – When They Notice You’ve Changed 👀 16:30 – Building Self-Worth After Avoidant Love 💪 18:45 – Final Message: Take Your Power Back 🗝️ ❓ Why Watch This Video? Understand the avoidant push-pull dynamic Break free from the cycle of emotional confusion Learn how to emotionally detach with clarity Gain insight into what avoidants fear in love Reclaim your sense of worth and stop chasing Get inspired by real, psychological insights delivered in Mel Robbins' motivational style ⚠️ Disclaimer: This video is for educational and motivational purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional therapy, counseling, or medical advice. If you're struggling emotionally or mentally, please seek help from a licensed professional. Hashtags: #avoidantattachment, #pushpullrelationship, #avoidantpartner, #relationshipdynamics, #melrobbinsmotivation, #emotionaldetachment, #selfworthjourney, #healingfromlove, #relationshiphealing, #anxiousavoidanttrap, #toxicpatterns, #boundariesinlove, #emotionalhealing, #lovewithselfrespect, #avoidantbehavior, #breakthecycle, #relationshipclarity, #emotionalmaturity, #avoidantlove, #attachmentstyles, #emotionalpushpull, #nocontacthealing, #avoidingtoxiclove, #selfgrowth, #relationshipmotivation, #mindsetshift, #lovepsychology, #heartbreakrecovery, #anxiousattachment, #avoidantex Keywords: avoidant attachment, push pull relationship, avoidant love cycle, emotional unavailability, understanding avoidants, avoidant psychology, avoidant partner behavior, relationship power shift, emotional detachment, how to stop chasing love, why avoidants retreat, no contact with avoidant, anxious avoidant dynamic, emotional trauma, toxic love patterns, boundaries in relationships, stop chasing avoidants, avoidant fear of intimacy, emotionally distant partner, psychological love dynamics, self worth after breakup, how to regain power in love, avoidant communication, heartbreak motivation, self healing in love, avoidant ex, how avoidants think, emotional silence in relationships, dating avoidant attachment, breaking emotional patterns, reclaiming emotional energy, avoidance triggers, power after no contact