Psychologist Answers Couples Therapy Questions | Tech Support | WIRED

Psychologist and psychoanalyst Dr. Orna Guralnik joins WIRED to provide some couples therapy to the lovebirds of the internet. What's a big sign that a relationship won't last? If you think of someone other than your partner during sex, should you come clean? And how do you know if they're "the one?" Answers to these questions and plenty more await on Couples Therapy Support. 0:00 Couples Therapy Support 0:18 "You shouldn't have to change for your partner?” 1:19 Truth hurts needed something more exciting Bom bom bi dom bi dum bum bay 1:41 If you have to ask… 2:21 No female friends for my boyfriend 2:50 The “one” 3:35 Needing space vs. craving proximity 4:27 Doesn’t couples therapy sound fun? 5:09 Is the "inner child" real? 6:23 Can you just tell people to break up? 7:14 …should I tell him? 7:40 Don’t fight less—fight smarter 8:30 Only showing affection to initiate sex? 9:31 “For Those With Homophobic Parents: How do I do it?” 10:16 I’m listening 10:51 If everything is valid… 11:06 Truth > Feelings? 11:55 Shopping for a therapist 12:27 This one ain’t gonna last 13:23 The thrill is gone 14:04 T R U S T 14:47 The only constant is change 15:34 What if your family doesn't like your partner? 16:27 A lot to unpack here. You charge him rent? 17:04 How do I get over my husband cheating on me? 17:45 Multi-generational co-dependency 18:51 Psychoanalysis & You: Partners In Awareness 19:34 Intercultural relationships 20:57 The right time to leave a relationship 21:50 Building the emotional strength to leave a relationship 22:22 How about you check your ego and take some feedback, buddy 23:03 Marriage & Kids: Not For Everyone! 24:02 Is resentment normal? 24:48 Same fight different day 25:14 A dramatic take on menstrual cycles 26:24 I miss my wiiiiiife 27:12 Addressing emotional regulation 28:26 If you love it, start it…? 29:22 Literally the worst thing to ever happen to me Director: Justin Wolfson Director of Photography: Constantine Economides Editor: Alex Mechanik Expert: Dr. Orna Guralnik Line Producer: Joseph Buscemi Associate Producer: Paul Gulyas; Brandon White Production Manager: Peter Brunette Production Coordinator: Rhyan Lark Talent Booker: Mica Medoff Camera Operator: Vincent Cota Sound Mixer: Sean Paulsen Production Assistant: Sonia Butt Post Production Supervisor: Christian Olguin Post Production Coordinator: Rachel Kim Supervising Editor: Eduardo Araujo Additional Editor: Jason Malizia Still haven’t subscribed to WIRED on YouTube? ►► http://wrd.cm/15fP7B7 Listen to the Get WIRED podcast ►► https://link.chtbl.com/wired-ytc-desc Want more WIRED? Get the magazine ►► https://subscribe.wired.com/subscribe/splits/wired/WIR_YouTube?source=EDT_WIR_YouTube_0_Video_Description_ZZ Follow WIRED: Instagram ►►https://instagram.com/wired Twitter ►►http://www.twitter.com/wired Facebook ►►https://www.facebook.com/wired Tik Tok ►►https://www.tiktok.com/@wired Get more incredible stories on science and tech with our daily newsletter: https://wrd.cm/DailyYT Also, check out the free WIRED channel on Roku, Apple TV, Amazon Fire TV, and Android TV. ABOUT WIRED WIRED is where tomorrow is realized. Through thought-provoking stories and videos, WIRED explores the future of business, innovation, and culture.