Because breakup pain is so intense, it’s natural to ask yourself: “How can I get rid of this pain as quickly as possible?” A core emotional human need is to feel good, breakup pain goes against that. A common idea many people have at this point is: I need to replace my ex. I’m feeling lonely and rejected, what I need is company and reassurance, that will help me feel better. However, this strategy often backfires. In this video you'll learn why and what to do instead.
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Hi! I'm Maika - a psychologist, course designer and YouTube creator. The purpose of my work is to assist you in becoming an expert at self-leadership, so you can live your life to the fullest.
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00:00 Introduction
00:30 Why Just Replacing An Ex Is Not A Good Idea
01:29 Importance Of Processing
02:05 Values
02:20 Emotional Avoidance
03:19 Acceptance
04:08 How Long It Takes
05:29 What To Do
05:41 1) Closure
06:33 2) Emotional Stability
06:54 3) Self-esteem
07:37 4) Clarity About What You Want
08:40 5) Learnings
09:16 6) New Behavior
09:55 Steady Pace
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