Parents Called Me "Failure" at Dinner, Not Knowing I Just Sold My Company for $50 Million
My stomach twisted into a painful knot as I sat frozen at my parents' gleaming mahogany dining table, watching my father's face turn red with righteous indignation. "Alexandra has always been our disappointment," he announced to everyone gathered for our annual family Christmas dinner, wine sloshing dangerously close to the rim of his crystal glass. "All that expensive education wasted on her silly little internet projects while her brother runs a real business." He had no idea that less than twelve hours ago, I had signed the final paperwork selling my "silly little internet project" to Oracle Technologies for fifty-three million dollars. The worst part? My teenage niece was livestreaming the entire brutal takedown to her thousands of followers.
I'm Alexandra Reeves, thirty-four years old, and for the past six years I've been building CyberShield, a cybersecurity company specializing in protecting small businesses from increasingly sophisticated attacks. The journey from coding in my tiny apartment to leading a team of twenty-seven brilliant engineers had consumed every waking hour of my life. I'd missed birthdays, weddings, and countless family gatherings while bootstrapping my company with no outside investment—all while my family assumed I was "just playing around on computers" because I couldn't handle a "proper career."
The holiday dinner had seemed like the perfect opportunity to finally share my success. I'd even worn my grandmother's pearl necklace for the occasion—a family heirloom I rarely took out—planning to tell everyone about the acquisition after dessert. But my father had launched into his critique before we'd even finished the main course, and now I sat in stunned silence as he continued his assessment of my life choices.
"If she'd just listened to me and stayed at Merrill Lynch, she'd be a managing director by now, not whatever she calls herself at that little hobby business of hers," my father continued, carving his prime rib with surgical precision. "Chief technology something or other, isn't that what your email signature says, Alex? Made-up titles for a made-up job."
My mother placed her hand gently on his arm, not to stop him but to soften her own addition. "We just worry, sweetheart. You're not getting any younger, and what kind of security do you have? Jason's construction company has government contracts. Sarah's husband is on track to make partner at his law firm. What do you have to show for yourself?"