How to Talk So Kids Will Actually Listen — Backed by Science

00:00:00 – Intro: Why Kids Don’t Listen 00:00:58 – The Candy Store Meltdown 00:01:40 – The Root of Influence: Trust & Respect 00:02:22 – Principle 1: Acknowledge Feelings 00:03:52 – Puzzle Example: Validating Emotions 00:06:44 – Principle 2: Invite Cooperation 00:06:57 – The LEGO Scenario 00:09:30 – Principle 3: Alternatives to Punishment 00:10:21 – Drawing on the Wall Example 00:12:17 – Principle 4: Descriptive Praise 00:14:40 – Principle 5: Collaborative Problem Solving 00:14:45 – Screen Time Compromise Example 00:15:53 – The Long View of Parenting 00:17:21 – Cultural Fit & Adaptability 00:18:30 – Research & Personal Reflection 00:19:48 – Conclusion & Next Steps Are you tired of yelling, bribing, or threatening to get your kids to listen? You’re not alone — and the good news is, there’s a better way. In this video, communication expert and parent Bruce Lambert shares 5 transformative principles from the classic book How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish. Learn how to: Respond to tantrums without losing your cool Get real cooperation without yelling or threats Replace punishment with responsibility Build lasting trust and influence with your kids Praise in a way that builds confidence, not dependency Whether you're parenting toddlers, teens, or anywhere in between, these techniques will help you build the respectful, loving relationship you want — and deserve. 📚 Get the book: https://amzn.to/41ZpYsy 💬 Tell me in the comments: Which principle are you going to try first? 👍 Like this video? Please subscribe for more communication tools to transform your relationships — at home and at work. https://howcommunicationworks.com #Parenting #HowToTalkSoKidsWillListen #CommunicationSkills