How to Stop Sacrificing Happiness for Approval | Dr. Gabor Maté
Are you tired of constantly seeking approval from others and struggling to say “no”? In this eye-opening video, inspired by the teachings of Dr. Gabor Maté, we dive deep into the journey of authentic self-expression and explore why learning to say “no” could be the key to unlocking true freedom and self-acceptance.
Our speaker, an expert in positive care and personal growth, shares insights on why so many of us feel compelled to please others, often at the expense of our own happiness. Drawing from Dr. Maté’s work on the effects of childhood experiences, trauma, and emotional healing, this video examines how early influences shape our beliefs about saying “no” and how these patterns impact our lives today. From the fear of rejection to the desire for acceptance, we’ll unpack the barriers that keep us from standing up for ourselves and living authentically.
Through powerful reflective questions and practical advice, you’ll learn how to break free from the cycle of people-pleasing and reclaim control of your life. Whether you’re afraid to set boundaries or simply want to cultivate a greater sense of self-worth, this video offers the tools and exercises to help you start saying "no" with confidence.
👉 Key Takeaways:
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2:30: The speaker shares their background in positive care and discusses the importance of being authentic rather than seeking approval from others.
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5:00: The video highlights the common struggle people face in saying no, often stemming from a fear of rejection and a belief that compliance is necessary for acceptance.
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7:30: Viewers are encouraged to reflect on the origins of their beliefs about saying no, particularly how childhood experiences shape these perceptions.
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10:00: A series of reflective questions are presented to help viewers identify specific areas in their lives where they struggle to assert themselves and the consequences of not saying no.
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13:07: The speaker emphasizes the transformative power of regularly practicing the exercise of saying no, suggesting that it can lead to greater personal freedom and self-acceptance.
A very special thanks to the speaker Dr. Gabor Maté for sharing his knowledge with us.
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You can watch Full Episode here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ib_B4ztpj_s
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