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Do you keep falling for emotionally unavailable people—despite knowing they’re not what you need? Discover why fearful avoidants are wired this way and how to break the cycle for good.
In today’s video, Thais Gibson uncovers what fearful avoidants are really drawn to in relationships—and it’s not what you might think. Learn how subconscious comfort zones rooted in childhood shape their attraction to chaos, inconsistency, or emotional unavailability, even when they consciously desire connection and trust. Watch now to discover the exact tools to rewire your subconscious and break free from repeating painful patterns, whether you’re an FA or loving one.
00:00:00 Intro – What are fearful avoidants truly attracted to?
00:00:31 Subconscious comfort zones and early emotional imprinting
00:01:15 Chaos, pressure & earned worth: the FA’s baseline
00:02:08 Conscious vs. subconscious attraction desires
00:03:05 Why we repeat the same unhealthy dynamics
00:03:23 How to reprogram subconscious attraction patterns
00:04:04 Repetition + emotion = subconscious rewiring
00:04:49 Free trial info + how to shift your attraction set point
00:05:50 Self-neglect and reconditioning your internal patterns
00:07:00 The “wounded bird” dynamic + boundary rework
00:08:00 Aligning conscious & subconscious desires
00:09:00 Relationship coach certification + wrap-up
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