5 Ways Avoidants TEST You (And What It Really Means!) | Avoidant Attachment

Ever had someone pull you close, then ice you out—like you never mattered? It’s not a game. It’s a subconscious test rooted in avoidant attachment. Avoidants don’t test you because they don’t care. They test you because they fear intimacy, emotional closeness, and losing control. If you don’t recognise these avoidant behaviors, you’ll take them personally—and react in ways that push them even further away. Tired of the mixed signals? Start the full journey here 👇 🔗 Avoidant Attachment Explained: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL0hCQnxsO0P5vk6T7RVgd7HNcdGV8wMgb In this video, I break down 5 avoidant tests—what they really mean, and how to handle an avoidant partner without losing yourself in the process. 💡 Timestamps: 00:00 Intro – Why Avoidants Test You 00:28 #1 They Disappear When Things Get Too Good 01:17 #2 They Get Irritable Over Small Things 02:10 #3 They Ask for Space but Keep Tabs on You 03:04 #4 They Avoid Deep Conversations (But Secretly Crave Them) 03:45 #5 They Act Overly Independent—Even When They’re Struggling 04:40 Final Takeaway – How to Handle It 🔥 Watch Next: Attachment Styles & Emotional Intelligence 🎯 Attachment Styles: How They Shape Your Life & Relationships → https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL0hCQnxsO0P5vk6T7RVgd7HNcdGV8wMgb&si=ZVZ-BNIioVmcpU5S 💬 Join the Conversation Which of these avoidant tests have you noticed before? How did you handle it? Drop a comment below! ⬇️ #AttachmentStyles #AvoidantPersonality #EmotionalIntelligence #Relationships #SelfAwareness #MindsetShift #BreakTheCycle 🔔 Subscribe for No-BS Insights on Love & Attachment: 👉 @heyitsnardia Grab my eBook – The No-BS Guide to a Growth Mindset Break the cycle. Shift your mindset. No fluff, just facts: https://heyitsnardia.com/shop/p/no-bs-guide-to-a-growth-mindset Love the wall art in the background? It's called Unfiltered Wall Art and yep, I designed it: https://heyitsnardia.com/shop/wall-art 📲 Follow for more: TikTok: @heyitsnardia Instagram: @heyitsnardia 📩 Business Inquiries: [email protected]